Dear Biggie,
I am married to this amazing man. He loves and does not lie to me. He comes home at 5pm and does not drink. He fell from heaven. Because he is too nice, all my relatives love him.
But my problem is that my elder sister, whose husband died in a road accident two years ago and stays with us, has taken her liking for him a step too far.
She is always close to my man to the extent that most of the time they are together watching Premier League football on TV or cooking, picking up the kids at school and doing shopping.
Even when going to work, they leave in his vehicle despite the fact that she owns a Vitz. To me she has become more of a wife to him than I am.
I am afraid to approach them both because I do not want my man to hate me for being jealous. The other part of me is happy that my sister is taking good care of my man because I do not spend much time with him as I am too busy with work.
Is my husband in a safe pair of hands?
Jenny,
Blantyre.
Jenny
If I were you I would be asking: Is my husband in a safe pair of legs?
Because while you are busy, I can bet with my last coin that your elder sister and husband also get busy rocking and rolling.
Let me tell you, you cannot trust a woman with your man, even if it were your sister, especially your elder sister, because she knows your shortfalls and how to capitalise on them.
The good thing though is that unlike younger sisters who often snatch their sister’s husband for themselves, an elder sister is so mature that she takes care of business quietly and I can assure you that you won’t lose your man to her.
My assumption also is that your husband is not in love with her, because we all know that younger sisters are more attractive. But your elder sister in this case is just a willing partner in crime. Until you start finding time for your husband, your sister will be there for him.
Ever heard the adage, the nearest is the dearest?
BMW
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